We have access to instant information , sms, email and high speed IT technology. We beep at the car in front of us as soon as the light turns green. Resolutions to problems or relationships are expected instantly.
We want to see immediate results! Unfortunately, we try to live our fast paced lifestyle in what is naturally a slow paced world.
A good lesson on this subject is the story of the Chinese Bamboo Tree.
It seems that this tree when planted, watered and nurtured for an entire growing season does not outwardly grow as much as an inch. Then, after the second growing season, a season in which the farmer takes extra care to water, fertilize and care for the bamboo tree, the tree still hasn’t sprouted. So it goes as the sun rises and sets for four solid years. The farmer has nothing tangible to show for all of his labor trying to grow the tree.
Then, along comes year five.
In the fifth year that Chinese bamboo tree seed finally sprouts and the bamboo tree grows up to eighty feet in just one growing season!
Did the little tree lie dormant for years only to grow exponentially in the fifth? Or was the little tree growing underground, developing root system strong enough to support its potential for outward growth in the fifth year and beyond? The answer is , of course, obvious. Had the tree not developed a strong unseen foundation it could not have sustained its life as it grew.
The same is true for our children.
Parents patiently work in teaching their children values and build strong character while overcoming adversity and challenge, grow a strong internal foundation. Had the Chinese bamboo farmer dug up his little seed every year to see if it was growing, he would have stunted the tree’s growth. We ask our little children to sit still and have patience. Much better lesson if we are demonstrating that behavior.